This is a photograph of my great-great-great-grandmother, Lucretia Guthrie Day.
Lucretia lost a son, Alexander, in the war. He was the baby of the family, and everybody'd always made over him.
At age 18 he died, as a soldier in the Confederacy, during the siege of Richmond. Lucretia never recovered from her grief.
Her older sons, Henry and Douglas, had both learned to be doctors at the University of Virginia. I've seen where their rooms were on campus. My dad showed me, some 35 or 50 years ago.
Henry was an officer's surgeon for the Army of Virginia.
My great-great-grandfather Douglas held the same commission, but for the Ohio 22nd, of the Union Army.
That part hurt Lucretia, too.